A eulogy for your friend, in your words
Tell us about your friend for ten minutes: their sayings, their stories, what they were like to know. Read the opening free. It’s drafted by AI, only from what you tell us. £39 if you want the rest.
Free to start. No card, no account. Read an example first.
- Talk or type, about ten minutes
- Read the opening free
- £39 only if you want the rest
- Full refund within 14 days
- Drafted by AI from your words
Where to begin
What to say about your friend
You knew a side of your friend the family may not have seen: at work, at the club, on holiday, at the pub. That is what you can bring on the day. You don’t need the whole life. These are the things we’ll ask you about.
How you met
Where, and what you made of each other. Two or three sentences is enough.
What they always said
The greeting, the catchphrase, the way they signed off a message. Their own words put them in the room.
One story the family may not know
Kind and true. We’ll ask what your friend said next, because that is often the best line.
What you’ll miss
The honest answer, not the grand one. It makes a good ending, and it only needs two or three sentences.
You choose three, five or seven minutes, and we write to it. Short answers are fine, and you can skip any question after their name and yours.
Why it sounds like them
We ask the way a good listener would
A eulogy is only as good as the memories in it. So this isn’t a form. Say they were stubborn and we’ll ask for a time they were. Tell us a story and we’ll ask what they said next. Those small true details are what the room will recognise.
Tap the microphone and say it the way you’d tell a friend. You may find you remember more out loud. If you’d rather type, type.
- You can see everything we’ve kept, at any time
- A few follow-up questions at most, and you can skip any of them
- Stop whenever you need to. It will be here when you come back
Nothing made up
Only what you told us
Every sentence of your eulogy has to come from something you said. The AI is told never to invent a name, a story or a fact, and a second check reads every draft against your answers before you see it.
And if two things you’ve told us don’t add up, a date or a number of years, we’ll check with you quietly, before anyone in the pews does the sum.
- Only what you tell us goes in. Nothing is made up
- Where something’s missing, it asks you
- You check every line before you use it
For the day itself
A copy made for reading aloud
Writing it is half the worry. Standing up and reading it is the other half. So every eulogy comes with a reading copy:
- One breath to a line, so you never run out of air mid-sentence
- Pauses marked: / for a beat, // to let a moment land
- Names in bold, so you can look up and find your place again
- Large, clear print that works through tears and without your glasses
Look up at the end of a line, not the middle. Nobody minds a pause.
The last page of our fictional sample. It prints on A4 at 18 point. Fold it in three and it fits an inside pocket.
How it works
Talk to us about them
Tap the microphone and talk, or type. We listen, and now and then ask a little more, the way a celebrant would at your kitchen table. About ten minutes. Skip whatever you like.
Read how it begins
Tell us where to send it, and read the opening straight away. If it doesn’t sound like them, add a detail and we’ll write it again, free.
Make it yours
The full eulogy is £39, paid once. Two rounds of changes are included: tell us everything you’d like different, we ask about anything unclear, then rewrite. Then print your reading copy.
An example
The Year Six trip to Blackpool. The children are ready, and the coach driver doesn’t turn up. Now, Mum had never driven anything bigger than a Fiesta. She drove the minibus. All the way to Blackpool. And by all accounts she sang the whole way there.
That was Mum. If a thing needed doing, she didn’t hold a meeting about it.
From a sample eulogy for “Dot”, written from a fictional set of answers so you can see what to expect. Your friend’s will be made of their own sayings and stories. Read all of it.
Paid once. No subscription.
The conversation and the opening are free. You only pay if you want the rest.
The full eulogy
- In your voice, for 3, 5 or 7 minutes
- Two rounds of changes. We ask about anything unclear before we rewrite
- Your family’s memories, woven in the way you choose
- Large-print reading copy with pauses marked
- Yours to keep as a PDF and a Word document
£39
paid onceFull refund, no reason needed, up to 14 days after you pay.
Drafted by AI, working only from what you tell us.
Plainly
How it’s written
Your eulogy is drafted by AI, working only from what you tell us. It’s told never to invent a name, a story or a fact, and a second check reads every draft against your answers. Where something’s missing, it asks you. You check every line before you use it.
We say so plainly because you ought to know, and because it’s why this costs £39, where a professional writer often charges two hundred pounds or more. The memories are yours. The shaping is ours. The final word is always yours.
- What it does
- Asks about them, the way a celebrant would. Drafts the eulogy from your answers. Checks the draft against them, line by line.
- What it never does
- Invent a name, a story or a fact. Pretend to be a person. Learn from what you tell it: your words are not used to train AI.
- Where your words are kept
- Encrypted, in the UK. The AI model that drafts from them runs in the EU, under a contract that forbids using your words for training.
- How long for
- Deleted 30 days after your last visit, or 30 days after the funeral date you gave us if that is later. You can delete everything sooner from your private link, or by emailing us. The details are in our privacy notice.
Questions people ask
What if I don’t know what to say?
Half-sentences are fine. “He always had a mint in his pocket” is worth more than a paragraph of fine words. We’ll ask a little more where it helps, and you can skip any question after their name and yours.
Can I really just talk?
Yes. Tap the microphone and say it the way you’d tell a friend. You may find you remember more out loud. You’ll see your words appear and can correct anything. If you’d rather type, type.
Will it sound like me, or like a greetings card?
Like you. It’s written for speaking, in plain British English, using your own phrases wherever it can. We keep a list of funeral clichés it isn’t allowed to use.
What if it isn’t right?
Two rounds of changes are included. Put everything you’d like different in one go; we’ll ask about anything unclear, then rewrite, and show you exactly what changed. If it still isn’t right, email us within 14 days of paying and we’ll refund you in full. You don’t need to give a reason.
What if I cry?
Then you cry, and nobody minds. Every person in the room is on your side. The reading copy is printed large, one breath to a line, so you can stop, breathe and find your place again. Give a spare copy to someone who could finish it for you. You almost certainly won’t need them to.
Start with their name.
The rest will come. We’ll help.
Free to start. No card, no account. Drafted by AI from your words.